Showing posts with label Psychology. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Psychology. Show all posts

Thursday, October 15, 2026

The Overton Window: How Ideas Become Acceptable Without Anyone Noticing

blac

Oct 8, 2026

There's an idea that, right now, would end a career if you said it out loud. 

Nobody proposes it. Nobody defends it. But ideas like this don't always stay 

that way.

The Overton Window is the range of ideas a society considers acceptable to 

say in public. It doesn't move because someone wins an argument. It moves 

because the furthest edge keeps shifting outward, and everything behind it 

gets pulled along, one small step at a time.

Part of an ongoing series on the psychology of belief, compliance, and 

manipulation.


Saturday, August 29, 2026

I Went No Contact with My Parents. I Regret It.


A therapist told me my mom and dad were causing all my problems—so I cut them off for five years.


In 2008, Christina Buttons took the advice from her therapist to cut off her parents completely. (Illustration by The Free Press)

By Christina Buttons
08.12.26 —Culture and Ideas

Book reviews, cultural critiques, essays on the zeitgeist, and profiles of the avant-garde.

“We have two adult children, a son aged 30 and a daughter aged 27. We are estranged from them both,” wrote a 60-year-old mom.

“Our oldest son, 27, has gone no contact with our entire family,” wrote a 57-year-old mom.

“It seems like she’s been influenced by the “no contact” movement too common in her generation, which rejects normal parents as toxic,” wrote yet another mom, this one 55, whose daughter doesn’t speak to her.

I’ve read so many messages from people who are desperately sad that their adult children don’t talk to them. That’s because I’m the editor of Tough Love with Abigail Shrier, our weekly advice column, so it’s my job to sort through the letters she gets. You ask: How do you rebuild a relationship with your son when you’ve been cut off? If your daughter’s decided you’re toxic, how do you cope with the pain?

At the heart of these questions is another, even deeper one: How could my own child reject me like this?

In her essay today, Christina Buttons answers that question—explaining why she went no contact with her parents for five years, at the age of 19, and why she’ll always regret it.

If you’re one of the many people who’s told us that your child isn’t speaking to you right now: This is proof that there’s always hope.
—Freya Sanders

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Friday, June 12, 2026

Can Performative "Outrage" Be Trusted?







Simon Stapleton
Exploring the hidden psychology behind leadership, ambition, confidence and performance | Founder of Openmind™ Psychometrics and Truthsayers Neurotech®

November 8, 2024

Performative outrage: the flashy, loud, and often theatrical outbursts we see from celebrities, influencers, and, yes, even some of our friends on social media. It’s the moral grandstanding, the high-octane reactions, the hashtags, and sometimes the outrage that catches headlines. But here’s the kicker – in a world where every thought, reaction, and hot take can be amplified at a moment’s notice, how much of it is genuine, and how much is simply an act? Can we actually trust performative outrage, or is it just another tool people use to navigate – or manipulate – the landscape of public opinion?

Let’s cut through the noise and figure out where performative outrage truly stands.

What is Performative Outrage?

At its core, performative outrage is a display of anger or indignation, often delivered in public and meant to show others how morally upstanding or righteous someone is. While authentic outrage is a genuine reaction to something unjust or offensive, performative outrage tends to have a few distinguishing traits:
  1. It’s attention-seeking: The outrage is designed to attract an audience, typically via a social media post, a public statement, or even a full-blown press release.
  2. It’s superficial: It rarely delves into real issues or solutions; it’s more about the display than the depth.
  3. It’s trendy: Performative outrage often centers on topics that are hot-button or current. It fades as quickly as it appears when the topic isn’t trending anymore.
Performative outrage isn’t new – people have been posturing morally for ages. However, the internet has made it more visible, giving anyone with an internet connection the power to broadcast their views.

Monday, October 02, 2023

At Red Mass, Bishop Esposito encourages those in legal professions to be good stewards of the law as they serve others


OCT 1, 2023 


Washington Auxiliary Bishop Juan Esposito gives his homily at the annual Red Mass on Oct. 1, 2023 at the Cathedral of St. Matthew the Apostle in the nation’s capital. The 71st annual Red Mass in Washington, D.C., was sponsored by the John Carroll Society. The Red Mass seeks God’s blessings and guidance on those who work in the administration of justice. Bishop Esposito, who has degrees in civil and canon law, serves as the Vicar General and Moderator of the Curia for The Roman Catholic Archdiocese of Washington. (John Carroll Society photo by Christopher Newkumet)


Speaking at the annual Red Mass that seeks God’s blessing and guidance on the administration of justice, Washington Auxiliary Bishop Juan Esposito encouraged those who work in law to be good stewards of their profession and offer generous service to others, like the son from the parable in that day’s gospel who carried out his father’s will by working in the vineyard.

“We are all charged with fostering a good and just civil society. Lawyers and judges and civil servants are entrusted to be good stewards of that portion of the vineyard that is the law and legal system,” Bishop Esposito said Oct. 1 at the 71st annual Red Mass at the Cathedral of St. Matthew the Apostle in Washington, D.C., sponsored by the John Carroll Society.

Being servants of the rule of law means holding to “the principles of justice, of fairness, of authentic equity even when it is difficult. We will strive to know and to hold to the truth as we understand it… It is the truth, the Scriptures teach us, that sets us free,” said the bishop, who serves as the Vicar General and Moderator of the Curia for The Roman Catholic Archdiocese of Washington.

Bishop Esposito, the main celebrant and homilist at the Mass, has degrees in both civil and canon law. Before becoming a priest, he earned a law degree in his native country of Argentina, at the Catholic University of Cuyo in San Luis. After being ordained as a priest for the Archdiocese of Washington in 2008, then-Father Esposito earned a licentiate and a doctorate in canon law from The Catholic University of America. He served as a parish priest, in the archdiocese’s Metropolitan Tribunal and as an official with the Vatican’s Dicastery of Bishops before being ordained as an auxiliary bishop of Washington in February 2023.

Cardinal Wilton Gregory, the archbishop of Washington who normally serves as the principal celebrant of the Red Mass in the nation’s capital, sent a greeting to the participants at the Mass, noting that he was in Rome participating in the Oct. 4-29 Synod of Bishops.

An estimated 900 people, including judges, lawyers, diplomats and government officials attended the Mass. Dignitaries attending the 2023 Red Mass included two current justices and one retired member of the U.S. Supreme Court who are Catholic – John G. Roberts Jr., the Chief Justice of the United States; Associate Justice Amy Coney Barrett; and retired Associate Justice Anthony M. Kennedy.

Also attending the Mass were Dr. Peter K. Kilpatrick, the president of The Catholic University of America; and John J. DeGioia, the president of Georgetown University. The opening procession included deans and professors from law schools at local universities, and the offertory gifts were brought up by law students from the Columbus School of Law at Catholic University, the Georgetown University Law Center and the Howard University School of Law.